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From Ski Nannies to Shaman: New Signs of Super Success

In the bustling world of the ultra-high-net-worth (UHNW) and high-net-worth
(HNW) individuals, the quest for excellence has taken a whimsical turn.
Move over traditional consultants and therapists; enter the healing
shamans, breathwork gurus, and mystical guides.

Take Jag Gill, a former banker turned tech CEO, who shuttles between New York City and
glamorous locations worldwide. Amidst her hectic schedule, Gill found
solace in a monk from Tibet House US, who organizes meditations and
engages in deep conversations, all in the pursuit of professional growth and
personal enlightenment.


But Gill's journey into the metaphysical realm doesn't stop there.

In herpursuit of stress relief and mindfulness, she joins a breathwork community
led by Angell Deer, a shamanic healer, mystic, and permaculturist. The
Silicon Valley tech culture infiltrates even the serene landscapes of Esalen,
where tech giants like Google's former product manager, Ben Tauber, once
reigned as CEO. The juxtaposition of ancient practices and cutting-edge
tech culture becomes a hallmark of the millennial elite's pursuit of balance.
The shift towards metaphysical practices among tech elites reflects the
growing acknowledgment that success goes beyond algorithms and profit
margins. The pressure to transform startup dreams into tangible profits has
led these high achievers to seek unconventional guidance. Enter the
shaman, the "CEO Whisperer" and the power assistant who now plays a
pivotal role in curating the perfect life.


Jag Gill exemplifies the multifaceted approach to self-optimization. While
engaging with inspirational figures like her monk and shaman, she also
seeks out experts with a more science-based perspective. Enter Sharon
Melnick, PhD, a business psychologist and "CEO whisperer," who guides
Gill through the intricacies of stressful negotiations and empowers her with
strategies for success.


In this pursuit of personal excellence, the ultra-wealthy assemble
entourages of experts managed by a single power assistant. This modern-
day Jeeves not only oversees traditional tasks but also delves into the role
of a tastemaker. As lifestyles resemble five-star resorts, personal chemists
help hack psyches with substances like psilocybin, and niche connoisseurs
ensure the right furnishings, cars, toys, wines, and art populate their lavish
abodes.

The quest for optimization extends to every facet of life. From full-time
water-sports specialists managing board sports to experts harmonizing the
energy of both individuals and their real estate holdings, the UHNW and
HNW individuals are leaving no stone unturned in their pursuit of the
perfect life. Even parenting takes on a new level of complexity, with
specialists catering to specific philosophies and methodologies.


As the pursuit of excellence among the ultra-wealthy reaches new heights,
the traditional roles of domestic staff undergo a transformation. The butler,
once a symbol of formality, now dons a more casual attire, trading
formalities for iPhone savvy and personal assistant duties. The competition
for the best and most specialized staff becomes a suburban race to
outshine neighbors, reflecting the insatiable desire for more in the elite
world.

In this era of artificial intelligence, skyrocketing wealth, and existential
angst, the ultra-wealthy are rewriting the rules of success. Whether
consulting a shaman for life guidance or hiring a personal chemist for
psychological hacks, they're on a quest to maximize what they can
control—themselves. And in this pursuit, the journey towards optimization
takes unexpected, often humorous, turns, creating a vibrant tapestry of
eccentricity in the world of the super successful.


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